From the monthly archives:

January 2009

Do It And Others Will Follow

by Miruh on January 6, 2009

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My interest in the world of  spirituality and  the esoteric  reached its height at a time when such subjects were considered strange. I was nineteen and I worked in an office at a clerical job yet it was an exciting time in my life. One of my co-workers, Mike, was an avid reader and his interests were in books of an esoteric nature. He introduced me to books by writers like Ouspensky, Gurdjieff, Alan Watts, Aldous Huxley, Herman Hesse, Edgar Cayce, Alice Bailey, Ram Dass and a host of others of that particular genre. That was in the early seventies, the post flower-children generation, when interest in spirituality was a passing fad; cool because the Beatles had gone to India and met a Guru. I knew a few people like Mike who were fascinated and read a lot. The extent of their interest though, played on the surface, an intellectual inquiry. Still I felt like I had some common ground with this group whereas when I would share the fascinating stuff I was learning with my other friends the reaction was either disinterest or ridicule. Today, the subjects of yoga, mysticism and the occult are mainstream and acceptable.

What is the  pivotal reason behind this general interest in such subjects as astrology, mythology, mysticism, healing arts, Yoga, and Tai Chi? I believe that this interest is not a new phenomenon. It has always been there. There have been secret societies in the West and visits from Gurus from India as far back as the late nineteenth century. What is different now, is that there have been a lot more people who have gone deeper in their investigation by going to study with spiritual teachers. We are at a stage when a lot of these people are integrating the teachings into their lives. They are  coming out of the closet to  speak openly about their experiences and passing on wisdom so that others too can find answers for themselves.

When we dare to step off the treadmill of acceptable behaviour and follow our own  inclinations, when we listen to our own soul’s whispers, we open a door that makes it possible for others who may be afraid to make change or do not know how. Back in the seventies, Mike used to joke with me and call me a hard core yogi. The hard core yogis were the ones who dared to go into the mysterious, dimly lit, incense perfumed room at the back of the yoga studio to sit and meditate. Most others just came and did their Hatha Yoga workout and had nothing to do with the other weird stuff at the back of the studio. I think it is people like myself who pushed the envelope, and  made it possible for others today to be okay about openly talking about learning to meditate, vegetarianism and seeking answers as to what this life is truly about.

I read a brilliant passage in one of Robertson Davies novels, The Manticore, referring to the likes of Jung, Freud and Adler, giants in the world of psychology. The protagonist is getting advice about his indecision as to whether he should work on his own, or continue to go for analysis after a year of working with his doctor. His advisor said, “They dared heroically. And it should never be forgotten that they made the inward journey while they were working like galley-slaves at their daily tasks, considering other people’s troubles, raising families, living full lives. They were heroes, in a sense that no space-explorer can be a hero, because they went into the unknown absolutely alone. Was their heroism simply meant to raise a whole new crop of invalids? Why don’t you go home and shoulder your yoke, and be a hero too?”

This last part of the advice, “…go home and shoulder your yoke, and be a hero too,” is what so many spiritual seekers of the last few decades are doing with their lives now. They are living their truths after  their years of studying, hanging out with spiritual teachers, attending seminars and encounter groups. They have opened a door, showing others that they too can follow their lead, bring greater meaning to their lives and come to know the truth of this existence. They have made it easier for a new generation of seekers, having taken the risks of being outcasts in a society that looked upon such passions in esoteric studies  as foolish, insane or strange. They have taken the hero’s journey, the spiritual healing journey and are continuing on the path to freedom, but now with a lot more kindred souls on the road.

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If You Did Not Exist

by Miruh on January 2, 2009


Every year I watch the classic Christmas movie, It’s A Wonderful Life, and this year I was particularly struck by the scene close to the end of the movie, where the protagonist George, contemplates suicide. He is in a financial pickle and he can’t see any way out. He prays to God to show him a way and God sends an angel down to set George straight, to show him that his life is worth living. As George stands on the bridge agonizing about jumping into the river and ending it all, he hears a cry for help coming from the murky waters. George jumps into the water and saves the drowning man , who is really his guardian angel in disguie.

As they are  warming themselves and chatting, George mentions that he wished he was never born. The angel decides to show George what the world would be like if George was not alive to make his contribution to life. They go into the town where George lives, but it is in an alternate reality to the one that George knows.  Everywhere George goes that was familiar to him in his own reality, he encounters the antithesis in this alternate reality. Because George is a kind and compassionate businessman,  through his help, the community prospered. George only finds hostility, harshness and economic depression in this alternate reality. He could not understand how this could be, and the angel reminds him that in this reality he does not exist; he is not there  to make a difference in the community. The angel continues to show him people he knows and how different their lives turned out because the good deeds he did to help those people, does not happen in this alternate reality.

George saw how important his being alive is, that his life matters to the rest of his community and his family. George turns around his desire to end his life and goes rushing home to celebrate Christmas  with his family. When his friends heard about his predicament, everyone chipped in to help him and his business was saved.

This scene from the movie reminds me of the quote from Socrates: An unexamined life is not worth living. If  we do not contemplate and become unaware of the effect our life has on others, we may not honor and value ourselves, we may belittle who we are, and we will not be able to see how being alive is a gift to ourselves and all of humanity.  Looking at our own lives, doing some journaling around this subject, can be a good exercise to heal depression, apathy and low self-esteem.

On the other hand many of us feel that we have something important to contribute to mankind but feel that we are not doing anything with our lives.  We may think that we have to become famous, that only people who write books, and accomplish great things, have an effect on the world. We may think that we must find our purpose, our mission in the world before we can give value to our lives. On the contrary, most of us are called to have an effect amongst a small circle of friends or in raising our own families. Many people live quiet anonymous lives, may not be active in their communities but by the grace of their peaceful presence, have a deep effect on those around them. Through their prayers and intention they hold the energy of peace for the rest of the world and that is valuable work that anyone can do.

Whoever we are, whatever we do, it matters that we are here to give the gift of our lives. The uniqueness of our input in life adds to the greatness of the whole. Stephen Covey said, “Synergy is the highest activity of life; it creates new untapped alternatives; it values and exploits the mental, emotional, and psychological differences between people.” Each one of is unique in character and wisdom and only we can make the impact on the world with our own stamp. No one else can duplicate how we do whatever we do. Think about it, the world would be a very different place if you were not in it to participate. Every time you offer your kindness, your love, your wisdom, it has a ripple effect in the lives of all those who are in contact with the recipients of your virtues. You touch lives that you are not even aware of; you make this a better world for all of us. Thank God you were born!

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